Thursday, November 30, 2006

HOLIDAY TIME

This is a time to remind ourselves of what there is to be grateful for. Concentration on the positive will increase the good in your life and those around you. Negative attracts negative. It is also a time to look back at the last year objectively and to ask yourself if you think the quality of your life has improved to the degree you want it to. Make a list of exactly what you would like to happen in the next year. Then ask yourself what can you do to make that happen. Be honest. The process of getting what you want starts with You, not with anyone else. If you are not clear about what you want and what you are willing to do to get it, then it is highly unlikely you will succeed. Listen to your inner voice. Stressing about what could be will not help you. Blaming others will not help you. Asking for help from people who are capable of helping and who you are able to serve in some way, will bring solutions to problems. Start a list now. Do not wait until Dec. 31st to make resolutions for the new year. If you have a specific problem in reaching your goals, I would like you to write to me so that I might be able to point you in the direction that will get you there. I might want to post it as others could have similar questions, so let me know if you don't want me to.

get ready for tomorrow today

Thursday, November 16, 2006

WHAT IS PERSONAL POWER?

No matter if you say you can or you can't, you will be right.
Think that if you can't, you must.

It's not what happens that determines the quality of life. The difference in the quality of your life is what you DO about what happens.

Belief in yourself equals your ability to practice self discipline.

For things to change, you must change. What keeps you from change? FEAR. What is fear?

F E A R = Forever Evading Another Reality

Keys to overcoming fears:
1. Identify it
2. Analyze it
3. Be willing to accept the worst
4. Be willing to take action
5. Take action

Ask yourself: what caused or created your fear? what benefit do you get from it? Why is now a good time to be free of your fear?

Only by facing your fears can you to tap into your personal power which is the key to a successful life.

Personal Power is:
1. The ability to act. The universe only rewards action.
Fatigue can make cowards. Find your energy.
2. Skill - decide what you want exactly
3. Strategy - know how what you want will help other people fill their needs

Practice makes perfect!